I think because he his a B-O-Y, he thinks he doesn’t have to hustle. Suburban upbringing alert! While Femmebots were told they could do anything, B-O-Yz were brought up feeling insecure and left out. BOO HOO! Make yourself relevant whether you are Femmebot or B-O-Y. And if you’re a Femmebot, align yourself with B-O-Yz who …
There goes a B-O-Y again fantasizing on accident. It’s not that he doesn’t want to stop himself…he prides himself in self control, that is how he plays in business with the other B-O-Yz. But when a Femmebot’s around, he can’t help himself… She distracts him. And when she talks he looks at her mouth and …
It’s a known fact that women actually enjoy sex. When they express it, however, some audiences think they are EVIL. I referenced the business of porn in a corporate office recently and I was met by the confusion and horror of male brows. At the time, I thought I was making a great case, being …
The last guy I worked for planted a seed in my orange chakra. That makes him my baby daddy. Now I got a guy who gives me tons of cash for me and my baby. “I looove single baby mamas,” he tells me in his best charity voice. He’s my sugar daddy. Sugar daddy pays, …
My strengths: Connecting dots, managing time, 90% confident, physically attractive, thoughtful, generous, spontaneous, 99% happy, creative, headstrong…being a Latina writer and helping all my Latina writers with big mouths and big ideas — Marga Gomez, you know who you are. My weaknesses: Impatient, managing time, desperate for attention, headstrong, know-it-all, judgmental, self-conscious, power trippy, spontaneous, …
In our jobs we have a lot of persuading to do. But if you try to persuade too much you sound desperate. No one likes a desperate woman, so why would they respond to a desperate email? What if you just tease? What if you don’t need their business like you don’t necessarily need a …
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After spending a full day behind a computer, sitting at meetings and remaining calm under pressure, a Femmebot’s wiring starts on the downward spiral of short-circuiting. Signs of this nightly occurrence is bitchiness, frequent whining and confusion. The best cure for this is a glass of wine or bedtime. DO NOT try to engage a …
We don’t do feminism the way our mothers and white women did 30 years ago. We are built like porn stars and think like shrewd CEOs. We are all about making our own money by pursuing our own passions. Some of us are products of familial/affirmative action, while others worked 30 hours a week to …
That’s the mantra of a Femmebot climbing the social and economic ranks of the United States of America. Or at least it should be. You can’t be one generation removed from your immigrant parents and forget the cracking sounds of their backbreaking work. It’s not just Latinas – it’s Jewish girls, Chinese girls, Indian girls, …